Monday, May 31, 2010

Family Service

When I was a little kid, my father (who had served in the Air Force during the Korean War), told me the story about my grandfather.  

The story was about how grandpa (my father's step dad) had served time in prison because he was a conscientious objector during WWII.   A devout Jehovas Witness, he didn't believe in fighting or killing.  My dad, who was prejudiced beyond belief about anyone who was different or believed differently than he did, told the story every memorial day when I was little.

I had a brother who served in the Armed Forces during Vietnam when I was an infant, and other family members who had served in both world wars so memorial day was important all the way around.  

I believed in military service from a very young age, so much so that I was willing to join when I was 19 and sign an oath I wasn't a homosexual.

Years later, after my father died, I found out he had been discharged from the Air Force with a 'less than honorable' label attached to his service record.   I never found out why, though I could have.   It also made me think about how proud my dad he had been when I joined......but how if he had lived long enough to learn I was gay....odds are he would have disowned me. 

I still believe in serving one's country, and that includes in the military.   If we are privileged to the point of living here and enjoying the freedom the rest of the world envies...we have a duty to serve and protect that.....even if we're gay.  

This memorial day I remember my family members who have passed...those who served, and those who were simply a part of the tapestry of my life.    I also pause to honor those currently serving.....and those whos service has been hindered or destroyed by DADT. 

5 comments:

Lawrence said...

We just went to the cemetary to bring flowers and clean some headstones. I know it is sad, but the cemetary was really beautiful with all the people, flags and flowers, it should be like this all the time.

A Lewis said...

In Boise, we used to go to Veteran's Memorial Park near North 36th and State Street. We'd watch them shoot off the canons, listen to the speeches, and watch the jets fly over.

SteveA said...

Thanks for sharing this post- it's honest and heartfelt!

Wonder Man said...

nice post, Geoff

Cubby said...

Geoff....
You disappeared again....
Are you ok?

 
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